Archive for December, 2006


Remembering Dec 31, 2003

December 31, 2003 was a very exciting day for me as I was flying to Illinois, USA for my graduate degree. Like “Gambhir Man” in our SLC text book, I too had some mixed feelings; leaving parents and beloved ones but at the same time venturing a new life ahead. That day was really busy for me, although my flight was late at night I was already dressed up from the morning and interacting with visiting relatives and friends. Finally, it was time to go.

I knew Kundan (known him from my undergraduate days at KU) and Lalit (had contacted me before) were heading to same school, so I wont be short of company. After, bidding farewell to my parents, promising I will be back soon (haven’t been to Nepal since then), I went to check in my luggage and find Kundan and Lalit. To my surprise, there were total of 31 Nepalese, including me, in that same flight to DC (our port of entry). I found out later that those people were from diverse professional backgrounds; majorities were students, some were DV winners, few were businessman, and some were traveling to see their pregnant daughter or daughter in law etc. The trip was already shaping up to be very adventurous.

I took my seat in the plane and started watching ‘Johnny English’. Even after I finished the movie, the plane still hadn’t move. I was told that there were some technical issues so we will be flying only next afternoon. So we all were taken back to the boarding area. The Airline accommodated us in Soaltee Hotel, but typical of Nepalese attitude, foreigners were given more respect and priority when transferring to the hotel. When I finally was moved to the hotel and given room it was already 6 am and our flight was at 2 pm, so best I could get was a power nap. I quickly forgot the discrimination of the airlines between foreigners and Nepalese as I was very excited in spending a night in a 5 star hotel (for first time in my life).

Next morning after having breakfast we were taken to the airport, again same attitude: tourist first. Flight to Vienna was pleasant; I think wine has a lot to do with that. As expected, we had already missed our connecting flight to DC so we will have to spend a night in Vienna. But, we did not have visa to go beyond the transit area, and it was too late to obtain a visa for a night. The airline officials promised to take care of this and we were allowed sit in one corner of the airport. This was the time when I interacted with most of them. After couple of hours, when most of us were already asleep on floor, we were told that we will be taken to the hotel. But, they will write all our information from our passport before we move out of the airport and in the morning they will verify if anyone escaped.

The hotel was better than Soaltee but we had only 6 hours of time before we had to be back in the airport. Restaurants in the Hotel were closed, so we all had to be contained with the dry food we brought in our hand carry. In the morning after having breakfast we went back to the airport, we all were in standby but fortunately we all got a seat. Everything from there went smooth, except the hustle at port of entry.

I forgot many incidents from that flight, I am quite sure there were plenty more. I guess other people will have other stories from that flight. Besides Lalit and Kundan, I recently met Bardan (Nepalese Cricketer) and used to be in contact with Ruby and Mani, I hope others are also fine and doing well.

No Photographs Please


In an informal discussion with my colleagues during a lunch, one of my friends mentioned about how she was not allowed to make photocopy of a book published in 1800’s citing that the light of the photocopy machine will affect the readability of the book. The discussion followed up with my other colleague stating about camera’s not being allowed in museums. At that moment, I was thinking why camera was not allowed in some Nepalese Temples (or perhaps some Hindu temples in India too). I simply could not come up with any logic or reasoning behind camera prohibition. I did some research later that day to find out exactly why camera’s were not allowed in museums, and try to see if it corresponds to any correlation in Nepalese Temples.

Although it isn’t 100% scientifically proven, it is said that flash of the camera will have significant irreversible reactions to paintings or sculptures. Some museums have no restriction on camera’s whatsoever whereas some don’t allow camera at all, but some seem to sell ‘cameras without flash’ inside the museum. But, I don’t believe restrictions in the temples are motivated by this reason.

Other reason behind restriction to camera is to protect the sales of postcards & books, which are an important source of revenue to the museums. But, I have never seen an official temple store selling souvenirs, it doesn’t even exist. So, restriction in temples are not motivated by the concerns of revenue loss.

Thus, I thought there must be some unique reasons why cameras aren’t allowed inside the temples. After pondering for while I came up with some possible explanations. Although these logic’s don’t make much sense, I could not think of any more. If you guys have more ideas, do share that with me.

1.Taking pictures will religiously devalue the god
2.There will be a longer line (wait) if people worship & take pictures at same time
3.Keep the sculptures safe from smugglers exporting it to foreign market
4.After mass production of pictures, no one will come see the sculptures ultimately affecting the local economy (best one I could think of!!!)

Proposed National Anthem of Nepal

सयौं थूंगा फूलका हामी, एउटै माला नेपाली
सार्वभौम भइ फैलिएका, मेची-महाकाली ।

प्रकृतिका कोटी-कोटी सम्पदाको आंचल
वीरहरुका रगतले, स्वतन्त्र र अटल

ज्ञानभूमि, शान्तिभूमि तराई, पहाड, हिमाल
अखण्ड यो प्यारो हाम्रो मातृभूमि नेपाल ।

बहुल जाति, भाषा, धर्म, संस्कृति छन् विशाल
अग्रगामी राष्ट्र हाम्रो, जय जय नेपाल ।

I always felt I had heaps of patriotism in me when I was in Nepal, but after I moved abroad I realized I was more a whimsical than a patriot, typical of most of the Nepalese. Carrying on with the whim; for example Hritik Roshan issue, burning of the Mosque’s etc; and annotating that to patriotism is a common misinterpretation of patriotism in Nepal. I hope I am wrong, but I think no one gets more carried away than Nepalese. The energy and the exuberance are always appreciable, but proper streamlining of it is more important.

When I came to US, I saw different expression of patriotism; respecting their flags, singing their national anthem from heart etc. Five years back, before the current political development in Nepal, I had no problem with the wording of Nepalese National Anthem; I guess I simply didn’t care. But after coming here and listening to people sing passionately their anthem, I started following their words and realized how good their national anthem was compared to Nepal. Each person singing could represent themselves in that song, whereas in Nepalese Anthem it was all about the Monarchs. Finally, a new national anthem is proposed that’s embeds all the Nepalese. I don’t want to get into the controversy of “there could be a better one”, there might or might not be a better one but this new song is certainly more holistic than the old one.

One thing I am more concerned with is, how will be the melody of this new anthem. Besides Nepalese anthem, I know the American and the Indian Anthems, and both have a very nice melody. I believe the old Nepalese anthem sounded more mechanized and superficial. I hope new national anthem will be song little slower with more reiteration of the words that brings passion out of us. For example: “Jai He” in Indian, and “O’er the land of the free and the home of the brave” in American.

The music composition part is handed over to Ambar Gurung, a veteran musician; let’s see what he comes up with.

Been to a movie alone?

When you move to a new city it takes a very long time to find friends that has similar taste. I am struggling with that too after moving to Lafayette. I did not have to adjust much moving from Kathmandu University to Southern Illinois University, maybe being a student helped a lot. As I mentioned in previous blogs I am not that big a movie fanatic but I certainly like to go to the theatre once in a while. Since moving to Lafayette (since April 2006) I have been to Mission Impossible III, Pirates of the Caribbean II, Talladega Nights, and Borat. I had to work very hard to find someone with similar movie taste to go with me to the theatre.

I really wanted to see ‘Departed’, but I couldn’t find anyone to go with me and now that movie is gone from the theatre. When I shared my frustration with my officemate’s they asked me why I don’t go by myself. When I explained it’s weird to go alone they asked me if I go to a theatre to watch the movie or talk to my friends. Still, I found that idea very awkward, how can anyone go to the movie alone? I had never been to a movie alone and I bet most of you too. I wanted to go see the new James Bond movie since it was released and no one seem interested in that movie. After trying for weeks to get someone interested and failing, I took a gutsy step yesterday; I went to the movie alone.

I was feeling odd as I took my seat alone, but when I looked around I could see other singles too, happy to know that I was not alone. I still had that bizarre feeling till the movie started, I guess that’s the moment when you are busy chatting with your friends and eating popcorns, after that it went smooth. As soon as the movie ended I got out of the theatre, like I normally do, and drove home. So the only difference I found going to the movie alone compared to with friends is the period when you are about to enter the theatre and moments before the movie starts. Rest is just normal, unless you are used to hanky panky stuffs when it gets dark.

New Orleans Saga

After missing out the tour of New Orleans during the Def Leppard concert, I got another opportunity. My friend Samar from LA Tech University came to visit me with his six other friends. They were on their way to New Orleans from Ruston (North part of Louisiana), and Lafayette happened to be on their way. It was a lousy Saturday morning and I had nothing else to do, so I happily joined his group for the trip.

Before I moved to Louisiana, I synonymously used New Orleans for Mardi Gras. After hurricane Katrina New Orleans got the global recognition. Like the saying “What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas”, I thought ‘to know New Orleans you have to be in New Orleans’. I had witnessed Mardi Gras in St. Louis and someone told me that it’s the second biggest Mardi Gras event after New Orleans. But here I was told that all the major cities in this state has much biggers Mardi Gras celebration compared to any other cities outside. Well I will have to wait till Mardi Gras to find that out. Schools and offices are closed, for couple of days to a week, during that period to avoid the traffic. No wonder tourism is the main source of income for Louisiana.

When driving to New Orleans I had pictured it to be very crowded during the Mardi Gras time but very slow during the rest of the year, similar to Ocean City during the summer. But, when I got to the Bourbourn Street (one of the popular tourist hangout) it was jam packed (this is how it is through out the year). Carrying booze in streets is legal in New Orleans (I guess its legal in LA too) so you could see drunken people hovering around with their drinks. I could also smell the marijuana in the air. There are different bars with different bands playing: Jazz, Rock, Cajun, Hip Hop etc. There are also strip bars, gay bar etc along side other regular businesses. And, I had never seen cops riding on horses before in US (had seen traffic police riding horses in Ratna Park, Nepal).

To sum it up, it was entirely a different experience for me. Most of my friends wanted to come visit me during the Mardi Gras event, but I would like to suggest them it’s quite impossible to get there just for that day (because of the traffic and booked hotels). So, if you guys want to come to New Orleans for Mardi Gras but don’t have flexible schedules to plan your trip for that particular date, come any time to New Orleans, you wont see the Mardi Gras at the peak, but you wont be disappointed either. Posted by Picasa